Wednesday, November 30, 2005

Deer

Several years ago, back in west-central Illinois, we got into an argument. Eventually the argument ended. Apologies were voiced. Things were still a bit chilly between us, though.

Life went on.

We had to go to the next town to do some shopping. We packed the kids in the car. They could tell something was up, if not exactly what.

The trip down the river road was quiet. Driving along, I said a silent prayer asking that somehow the tension between us could disappear.

As we rounded a curve about 12 miles later we saw a handful of deer near the side of the road. It was a sudden, unexpected and rare experience.

I made a comment about the deer, completely innocuous. The statement was, however, neutral and had nothing to do with whatever it was we'd argued about previously. It broke the silence, it also broke the ice that had been growing between us. We began talking together.

Those deer were an answer to my prayers.

I'm looking for deer again.

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